My Life, People and Change.......

People around you.....

Last week had really been a busy one for me. To much happening in and around me. First, the art of living course in my college, most of which was pretty obvious. Some part of which was artificial too. A lot of things which were seen through the perceptions of a few people, the way think and the way the things worked for them. Not all situations work the same way for different people. Their is a lot more to life then just well defined paths. You just can't take already decided decisions for a particular situations. Circumstances and the people involved with the situation might affect your decision.

Second thing that came into my life was the College Trip. Enjoyed, talked,played, did adventure sports for the first time in my life. Some shades also went clear. A lot happened apart from the normal chit chat. I came to know how can small small things and discussions can pile up.

Thirdly, the last thing that came into my life and is right now is Mumbai. I am in Mumbai right now. I have come here to work for an NGO. It helps children to grow their interest in studies and also teaching them not to follow the adversities of the society like casticism, superstitions, etc.

Apart from all this, some other things also came into my notice. I came to know that after some point of time, even the strongest of people loose their confidence and so much so that they even try and change their selves. But, they don't know, this is nothing but temporary satisfaction and dilemmas that lead them to do such things. If a person was good enough to inspire others earlier, then by changing you, you are just gonno hurt yourself and nothing else. Just because the world around you (immediate world) around you is not as good as you are or not as the way you want it to be, doesn't mean that the rest of the world  is also as mean. Changing yourself just because of the people around you is the wort thing you could do to yourself. Sometimes, discussing things with wrong people also lead you to such situations, but you should be big enough to judge what is wrong and what is right. Things that suit you are not right always.  

All these realisations were very important for me and i hope that the people responsible for making me realise all this also realise these things and don't change themselves.Thats the worst thing you could do. Moving on and moving ahead of somethings is good, but moving ahead such that you change yourself is the worst thing you could do.

So, please don't change people. :) 

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